Ice-cold beer - one of life's small pleasures

Another new study (Quoidbach et al, 2010 – see details below) has been published on the topic of money and well-being, specifically, whether being wealthy enough to access the best things in life affects your ability to savour small pleasures.

The research suggests that wealthier individuals report lower savoring ability, and even being reminded of wealth produces the same negative impact on savoring as actual wealth. In fact, you don’t actually need to enjoy any peak experiences (such as spending time on a tropical beach holiday) for your savoring ability to be impaired – simply knowing that these peak experiences are readily available may increase your tendency to take life’s small pleasures for granted.

For a full review of the research and its implications, see Positive Psychology News Daily.

Reference:

Quoidbach, J., Dunn, E.W., Petrides, K.V. & Mikolajczak, M. (2010). Money giveth, money taketh away: The dual effect if wealth on happiness. Psychological Science 21 (6), 759-763.

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Cold beer courtesy of niel schubert

The aim of life is appreciation – GK Chesterton

Slow No Wake

Here’s a link to my article on Positive Psychology News Daily this month, on the subject of savouring, the Slow Movement and the physical and psychological benefits associated with taking your time.

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Family Meal

Here’s a link to my article on Positive Psychology News Daily this month, about  the benefits associated with eating together.

If you’d like to comment, feel free to do that here or on the PPND website.

Thanks!

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Many thanks to Kelly Sonora for sending me this link – 100 positive thinking exercises. My advice would be not to wait until you’re having a bad day to put these into action – once you’re in a negative frame of mind it will require more effort and self-control to get yourself out of it. Trying practising some of them everyday starting from today – create some new ‘positive rituals’. This will make it all the more easier to continue once the going does get tough.

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In my recent posting on Positive Psychology and Coaching I referred to Sonja Lyubomirsky’s new book, “The How of Happiness”.

The video clip from 20/20 is a great intro to the science behind the book. The case of the identical twins is fascinating isn’t it?

On Tuesday I was fortunate enough to take part in a telephone seminar with Professor Lyubomirsky, in which she outlined the key messages from the book. The things which I found most interesting were:

1) that happiness takes effort – i.e. you need to be prepared to work at it; it may not come naturally

2) according to Lyubomirsky, you need to ensure that you choose the strategies which you’re comfortable with. Some may not be your cup of tea. She readily admits to finding the Gratitude exercise difficult. If that’s the case try something else.

3) whatever strategies you find work for you need to become habits – things that you do on a regular basis without thinking about it, like cleaning your teeth twice a day. How will you get the happiness habit?

4) some of the strategies which have been empirically validated, like gratitude, savouring and acts of kindness, may sound corny and trivial, but they do work. Plus, you have nothing to lose by trying them for a few weeks.



Let us know how you get on with her ‘Person/Activity Fit’ diagnostic tool (p73) and the various strategies you choose as a result.

Thanks to Christine Duvivier for the links.